How to Read The Romantic Body Language

Instructions
Read Romantic Body Language
Step 1:
Eye Contact. Eye contact is the first sign that will signal to you that he is interested. He will make eye contact for about 3 seconds and then look away. He then will look at you for a longer time. This type of flirtation using the eyes may be done in any setting. Another sign that shows he is interested is that his pupils will enlarge. Single people should pay attention when they walk through the grocery store or at the gym. Mr. Right may be looking in their direction.
Step 2:
Touch. Someone interested in you will pretend to “accidentally“ brush something off your sleeve or shoulder. When they laugh, they will lightly touch your arm. If you are sitting down, they may touch your leg. These are all intimate signs that she would like to get to know you better.
Step 3:
Smile and laugh. A smile shows you that they are happy being near you. She will smile at you and laugh at your jokes. A smile shows others that they enjoy being in your presence.
Step 4:
Stroking . She may slowly rub her arm while you are talking. It is a way of saying that she wants to be touched in this way. Or you may notice that she is stroking the stem of a wine glass or rolling an object between her fingers. These are all activities that imitate actions during sex. She is telling you that she desires to stroke you and touch you.
Step 5:
. Grooming. She will run her hands through her hair. She will toss her hair back or twirl it between her fingers. She is telling you that she wants to look her best for you.
Step 6:
Licking their lips. She will slowly lick her lips to bring your attention to them.
Step 7:
Leaning towards you. His body will lean towards you when you are talking. It may begin with the head or he could lean his entire body. This is a sign that he would like to be closer to you. Try leaning towards him. If he leans away from you, he is telling you that he is not comfortable being that close to you and he is not interested. A woman will cross her legs and point one foot your way.
Step 8:
Standing close. He will stand close to you while he is talking. He will enter the comfort zone that we normally keep when we are talking to people. He is telling you he is comfortable being near you and he is preventing others from getting in between the two of you during your conversation.
Tips & Warnings
Have fun in your search for a true love. Don't put so much pressure on finding him. It will happen when you least expect it.
Finding love is a journey that we all embark on. Never give up even if you have had your heart broken a million times. He is out there.
Love like you have never had your heart broken.

Key flirting tips for men

What makes a woman decide that you are worth a flirting signal – especially if she’s never met you before? Initially it’s your appearance and body language. Some say that it’s as much as 80% of her decision. We’ve already covered appearance so now onto body language. These are the top male body language (flirting) signals of the available and attractive male.

Stand tall – don’t slouch

Keep your shoulders back

Keep your chin up

Suck in the stomach

Look around – scan but don’t stare

Make eye contact with women (very important)

Position yourself at the centre of the action – you’re an Alpha Male

Move slowly and confidently

Lead don’t follow

Don’t cross your arms (unless its freezing cold)

Preen

Show off your physique – if it’s good.

Be groomed in a very, very, casual way

Laugh and make people around you laugh with you not at you

Display wealth – appear wealthy

Tuck your thumbs – not hands – into your pockets

What do Women Want in men

What do Women Want?

What do women want? Well that’s the toughest of all questions because more than half the time they’re not sure themselves. (We’re not being patronizing – just truthful.) What women want changes depending on their age, their culture, the century and the time of their menstrual cycle? For millennia, men pondered this question then, as their heads started to hurt, went and got drunk. Many still do. However, thanks to the internet and the sudden surplus of information available, it’s possible to finally understand this mystery.

This is what women want – most of the time – but they will happily settle for just some of it and, in certain cases, very little of it. Beware – it’s confusing. In general, women want men that are …

Tall rather than short (or at least taller than the woman)

Dark haired rather than Blonde

Handsome rather than plain

Masculine but clean (hygiene is important to woman)

A little rough and dangerous but safe and gentle – with them

Risk takers until they’re married and / or have children

Flat of stomach and small of butt

Broad of shoulder and narrow of waist

Wealthy or have future wealth potential

Leaders rather than followers

Able to make them feel good even if it means lying (convincingly)

Confident and relaxed

Popular with others but focused on them – the woman

Physically fit but not so it dominates their lives

Intelligent enough to understand them but definitely not a nerd

A little wild but tamable

Adventurous in their past and present but now adventurous with her

Unpredictable – for a while

Experienced with sex but prepared to give up other women for them

Good listeners

Definitely not weird – unless being weird is the norm for the social group

Able to dress with style and reasonable fashion

Loving but not possessive and stifling.

Prepared to walk away – if they really feel like it

Able to make them laugh! (Hugely important)

The Fetish Factors of Attraction

You probably won’t have seen this before because it is often just a bit too “taboo” for most people to appreciate and discuss. Basically it works like this. Almost every person alive has something specific that they find intriguing and attractive in the opposite sex that seems to defy the laws of common sense. By being aware of these you have that secret added advantage over your competitors. Some of the most common fetishes (and you can check these for yourself) are:

Attracting men …

Sexy female feet: 1,100,000 web results
High Heels: 12,300,000 web results
Sexy Uniforms: 395,000 web results

Attracting Women …

Uniforms: 890,000 web results
Look-a-likes: 670,000 web results (Est.)
Role Play: 340,000 web results

We’ve only listed three examples for each straight gender but there are hundreds. (Click Here).

A final thought on fetishes and body language is this. Men are currently more inclined towards fetish interests by a factor of 65% to 35%. Nobody is really sure why this should be. A final point, fetish behavior in females is growing year-on-year and should equal that of males by 2025. This may have to do with society relaxing its social female conditioning at an early age.

Why is this important? Well, if you know a person’s fetish interest and play to it with your body language then you have powerful “mojo magic” when it comes to attraction. Recently a guy we know noticed that a woman he works with seemed to wear a different pair of sexy high heels every day. One day she was in his office and without thinking he said, “Those are Manolo Blahniks aren’t they? They make your feet look sexy.” He swears she literally jumped on him. It turns out she was as turned on by wearing sexy shoes as he was by seeing them. A match made in Heaven

The Scent of Attraction

Not all body language is about what you see – it’s about what you touch and, very importantly, about what you smell. There’s two parts to this …

A) Pheromones: This is still a hotly debated subject but here are the basics. Pheromones are airborne chemical signals (scents) that are produced by one creature and cause a compulsive and instinctive reaction in another of the same species. A very common pheromone is one that triggers a sexual interest reaction. It is believed that humans do produce and react to pheromones but the scientific evidence is sketchy. One anecdotal, but strong, case for the power of pheromones is the dance floor. When a large group of people get together in an energetic and enclosed area there is also a dramatic rise in sexual awareness. This may be caused by the concentration of pheromones in the air. In our hygiene focused world the idea that sweat and body odour can be appealing is surprising but there is a lot of evidence to suggest that a little can be. Eight out of ten women said they were most attracted to their partner after he had worked out and then had a quick shower. This makes sense as he would be both clean (very important) but still scented with Pheromones. The same number of men said they were often very aroused by a woman who had just worked out whether she had showered or not. We’re not sure about this but it does bear thinking about.


B) Good Smells and Bad Smells: The perfume industry worldwide is huge. This alone should be proof of the importance of smelling right. The human body produces a vast range of smells and some add to attraction but many can have the opposite effect. The Bad smells are usually anything that is associated with illness, poor hygiene or filth. For example, smelly feet indicate athlete’s foot disease. Bad breath indicates possible tooth decay and long-term sweat may indicate poor personal hygiene. Humans are consciously aware that most diseases can now be controlled or cured but subconsciously they remain terrified of them. Smoking, stale coffee, oily hair, alcohol, wet clothes and skin oils can all create unpleasant and unattractive odors. The first rule is to eliminate them.

Good smells are those that suggest cleanliness, health and comfort but are not so strong as to be overpowering. Light perfumes for women – heavier musk perfumes for men. Fresh smelling clothes and lightly scented hair are good. Comfort smells are those that people associated with good things and make people relaxed and open. Apples, cinnamon, fresh mown grass and vanilla are all good examples. One woman we know claims that she always dabs a hint of chocolate essence on her neck as well as her perfume and claims it works wonders. (Who knows she could be right.)

The basic rule is this: A bad smell is very bad and is a big turn-off. A good smell won’t draw the opposite sex compulsively to you but it will send the right message